When you need to make a decision about your care, the law says that your doctor or midwife should give you all the information you need to help you make a decision that is right for you. This is informed consent.
Clear and factual
Risks should be shared in a way that make sense to you. Where possible, risks should be given as a probability or percentage, e.g. 1 in 100, or 1%.
If you are only told that a risk doubles, ask to be told what the actual risk is.
You could ask your doctor or midwife to discuss how good the evidence is.
You may be given a leaflet or web page to read.
You should always be given a chance to ask questions and discuss thoughts and feelings.
Risks and benefits
You should always be told the risks and benefits of every option, including the risks of the care which is being recommended.
If you haven’t been told the risks and benefits of all options, ask your doctor or midwife for more information.
Feeling pressure or guilt
Doctors and midwives should use factual information when explaining your options. They should never use language that makes you feel you have to do something.
If this happens, you could ask for your named midwife to support you.
Saying no, or waiting
If you are not sure, you have the option to decline recommended care, or wait for more information to become available.
Your midwife or doctor will respect your decision and work with you to create a personalised care and support plan.
Use BRAIN
BRAIN can help you to have conversations that will support you to make a decision.
B – What are the benefits?
R – What are the risks?
A – What are the alternatives or other options?
I – What does your intuition tell you?
N – What happens if you do nothing for now?
Once you have all the facts, you are the best person to make the decision that is right for you.
Everyone is different. Your previous history and your personal circumstances will influence your decision.
Your doctors and midwives will look after you, whatever you decide.